Thank you all.
I got the report, and my boss asked me to correct any mistakes in there or add what he forgot. The report is pretty good overall, though not the OPTIMUM, but that would not have been realistic anyway.
And well he made a few mistakes, with dates and spelling, so I actually have to correct them before sending the report back.
But as I said I think I can be rather content with it all in all.
I think though, while the other areas are well, too, the strenght really lies in my personality, at least it came out like that, that emphasis on my friendly, calm, yet determined way to deal with pupils as well as me being friendly (again. lol), supportive and reliable.
Sounds a little like a St Bernard, a bit boring, but I think it is really nice to be seen like that in this context, as I have to deal with a lot of people, and being cooperative definitely helps.
In fact the last sentence of the report emphasizes that my way of being (friendly, suportive, reliable) is being appreciated very much by all colleagues, parents of pupils, pupils and school-authority (so my boss, technically. lol).
Well, it`s not a bad report, I think.
the problem I am having now is actually different.
Because my boss seems to have decided to refer to me in more personal terms (though he never officially offered me the "first name basis"), he just somehow leapt over that stage, and is apparently now in the stage of thinking of me (and calling me) with my first name and in a more personal-friendly than professional-detached way.
which was also evident in the mail accompanying the report. I somehow transitioned in his mind apparently from "Ms X" to "Dear Ceri". *sighs*
This makes it really complicated for me, to be honest.
I like a bit of professional distance.
I know that him being the emotional person he is, tends to spontaneously offer the "first name basis" to a lot of people, but i successfully wormed my way around that, until now.
And while he did not really offer me that, he just started to refer to me in that more personal way.
And it is really weird now for me to decide how to respond to that.
Since he has not offered me that officially, it would feel inappropriate to simply respond in the same way to him (he is my boss after all), and I do not WANT to either.
But responding in a very formalized-detached way could also be wrong.
So I have to find a way now to respond to him in a friendly-formal way.
Yeah, not really too happy about that.